In loving memory of Aunty Jill.

Jill, a devoted wife and mother to three children and four grandchildren, faced the challenges of Lung Cancer with unwavering strength and a determination to live life on her terms. Two months before she passed, we organised a Living Wake at a relative’s house.

Surrounded by long-lost cousins, friends, and family, the Living Wake became a gathering of shared histories and laughter. Stories were told, tears were shed, and bonds were strengthened. Jill, in her indomitable spirit, made a speech, exclaiming, “I got to go to my own Wake! How good is this.”

Two months later, at Jill’s funeral service, we witnessed something extraordinary. The bonds formed during the Living Wake had created a sense of connection among all the guests. Friends and family, having spent a lovely afternoon together, expressed their gratitude:

“I felt so much better than at other funerals because we saw her recently.”

“The Living Wake made it easier to have a reason to visit, even though we knew she was dying. Normally, that would be an awkward visit that I would rather avoid.”

“It was great that the last time I saw Jill, she was laughing and surrounded by love. I will always remember her that way.”

Jill’s living wake left an enduring impact on those who attended, providing comfort, shared moments, and a celebration of life.